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Why are all the best bloggers women?

James Bradley December 15

To celebrate the 50th anniversary edition of *The Second Sex*, this weekend’s Guardian has a fascinating piece by Rachel Cusk about what “women’s writing” might mean in 2009.Rachel-cusk1

I’m a long-time admirer of Cusk, in particular her very brave and often painful memoir of motherhood, A Life’s Work, and I think her piece is well worth reading in full. But it also echoed a question I’ve been turning over in my mind for a while now, which is why so many of the best bloggers are women.

Before I go any further, I should make it clear I’m not saying there aren’t good male bloggers. There are, and lots of them. But as I cast my eye down my feeds, I’m aware that the male bloggers I read regularly are outnumbered many times over by the female bloggers I read regularly.

Obviously my feeds aren’t a representative sample of what’s out there in the blogoverse, but what’s interesting to me is the fact that the presence and influence of women online so outstrips their presence and influence in the literary world. Despite the confected outrage that inevitably accompanies events like the Orange Prize (“Why isn’t there a prize for MEN’S writing”, “Women ask for equality and then demand special treatment!” etc etc (and no, given the viciousness of a lot of this stuff I don’t think it’s accidental The Guardian seems to have disabled comments on the Cusk piece) it’s always seemed obvious to me not just that the perspectives and sensibilities of women writers are fundamentally different from those of male writers, but that our culture quite systematically privileges the writing of men over that of women. Anyone who thinks otherwise might want to run their eye down the list of writers in contention for the Nobel each year, and ask why the men so outnumber the women, or wonder how it is the Miles Franklin judges managed to “not notice” they’d shortlisted five books by men this year. Because men are better writers? Because men tend to address the big questions while women stick to the domestic? Or because we fail to value women writers, and persist in seeing importance in the subjects men choose to address precisely because men choose to address them? After all, what is it that distinguishes a novel like Christos Tsiolkas’ The Slap from a host of other large social novels by “middlebrow” female writers such as Joanna Trollope, Margaret Drabble or Julia Glass? How is it that a man like Tsiolkas or Sebastian Faulks writes a big social novel it’s a cultural event, but when a woman does it’s entertainment?

It’s curious therefore that the reverse seems to hold true in cyberspace. Women, and women’s voices, predominate, at least in those parts of the web I frequent. As I said before, I don’t think my feeds are a particularly representative sample, but I do think it’s fair to assume there’s a pretty serious overlap between the male-dominated literary world and the more female-dominated parts of the blogosphere in which I spend the most time.

Likewise, many of the best bloggers are women. Kerryn Goldsworthy, for instance, who blogs at Still Life with Cat, and who is not just one of the best bloggers working in Australia, but one of the best working anywhere in the world (though I could do without the LOLcats) is one who springs to mind, not least because she manages to use the form so incredibly effectively. I’m also consistently impressed by Meredith Woerner and Annalee Newitz at io9, both of whom bring a quite different and extremely intelligent eye to bear on SF-inflected pop culture. And then there’s Maud Newton, or even Spike’s newbie, Jessica Au. And these are just off the top of my head.

So why does the online space work for women? One answer (and this is going to sound like a putdown, but isn’t) might be that the more personal, digressive nature of the form suits women better than the more rigid forms that dominate the old media. Just as the personal essay, and its remarkable capacity to blend the personal and the political (and perhaps just as importantly, to hold two seemingly contradictory ideas in its head at once) is a form women seem to excel at, isn’t it possible that blogging, which can be smart, subversive, dangerous and daggy all at once the kind of thing which is uniquely suited to the sorts of interests often dismissed as “women’s writing”?

Perhaps it’s also got something to do with the ways women communicate. It’s a cliche that women communicate more easily amongst themselves than men, but it’s a cliche because it’s true. And the new media is all about communication and conversation, so it stands to reason women would be better at it. Spend some time in comments strings and it’s difficult not to be struck by the need of men to win arguments, or by the fact that if there are wingnuts being insulting they’re usually men.

It’s also possible, even likely, that the nature of the online world allows women a freedom they don’t tend to enjoy in the wider world. Not just the power of relative (or actual) anonymity, but also the capacity to just set up and get publishing without running the gauntlet of the male-dominated critical structures of the old media. And just as female word of mouth drives sales of books, so too does female linking, and tweeting, allowing sites to find audiences without needing approval from above. In this context it’s difficult not to wonder whether the increasing presence of more conventional media companies in the online space will begin to change the nature of online writing, or to tip the balance back in favour of men.

As I said above, none of the above is intended to be conclusive. What I’m really interested in doing is floating the question and seeing what others think. Does the online environment favour women in a way the offline one doesn’t? Are women using the space more effectively than men? And as the space grows less wild and free, will the balance begin to tip back towards men?

Cross-posted at City of Tongues.


 

Comments

by Elena
15 Dec 09 at 9:34

As a female blogger, I too find that my blogroll is dominated by other female bloggers.

I also find that the book blogs written by females tend to foster more of a community feeling than blogs written by males (apologies for this massive generalisation). I think blogging is more about discussion and information-sharing rather than top-down authority writing, and women are better suited to this. (Especially if you compare book blogs to online book clubs, and most book clubs are predominantly female).

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by Jeff
15 Dec 09 at 10:42

My first question would be what the overall proportion of men to women bloggers might look like on the internet; if such a thing could even be measured. Especially since many of them probably have multiple blogs. However, whereas your blogs might have a large female presence, mine are predominantly male writers; especially on technology/web-related blogs that I read. While they employ numerous staff writers, the majority is, in my experience across multiple such blogs, male.

I guess what I'm saying is echoing your statement that your feed might not be a representative sample of the entire blogoverse; and I think it differs from niche to niche. It's hard to get a proper sampling for such a large environment as "the blogosphere", one where some people read corporate blogs, personal blogs, travel blogs, cooking blogs, technology blogs, et cetera. If you take the internet as a function of demographics, the results will shift by "region" depending on the audience.

That being said, I think that women have far more of a voice on the internet than they do in traditional media. There are probably five billion sources that say this, but I can't be bothered. Gender equality is nice in theory, but I think we all know that while workplaces and corporations have their clauses and quotas, women are downplayed more often than not. By having to go through the hoops and walk the fine balancing act that is ambitious but not too aggressive, intelligent but not threatening to the patriarchal models, women can often be limited in their scope of reach.

But on the internet, such barriers and filters don't exist. It's a direct and personal experience (most of the time) where you say what you want to say without having to really tiptoe around the tulips. The effect of this could be various things. For one, women can blog about what they want, when they want, how they want. And the other side of it is not just the publishing of blogs, but the readership. In my experience, for almost every blog I've had, I've had far greater (known) female readership/blogroll than male.

Is that because men don't read blogs as much, or they don't comment or give feedback as much, or because -more- women read blogs or comment/feedback? I don't know. My personal experience says yes. Chalk it up to greater female empathy/sympathy, connection/community, or any other two-cent sociological theory. If I say that I think a contributing factor might be females who are not actively in the workforce spending greater time online - homemakers, non-full-time workers, stay-at-home moms, etc - is that sexist?

It seems to me, and obviously this is yet another generalization, that men (in my experience) don't put the time and effort into blogging as much as women appear to do. Even when they do, they're not as personal or open as female bloggers tend to be - I include my own blog in this category. Is it because women communicate better? I don't know. It's hard to tell how well people communicate on a platform that includes no body language and no tonality of voice, which I think women are far more keen to pick up on instinctively.

Like you said, I think that female bloggers are more down-to-earth, dealing with the realities and practicalities of life. Male bloggers tend to focus more on not just "bigger picture" ideas, but also detached, utilitarian subjects. I don't quite know where I'm going with this because I've written seven paragraphs to mainly just echo what you wrote in your post. So I'll just stop now.

As for me, my blog's woefully not been updated since July, so I don't think I even have the right to speak. :p

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by Kirsty Murray
15 Dec 09 at 11:44

Thank you for this very insightful piece. We need more discussion and debate about gender prejudice and how it operates in the media.

Last week, 'The Age' Melbourne Magazine published a list of 100 most influential Melburnians of 2009. 72 were men, 3 were groups and 22 were women. Not a single women was listed amongst the 'writers' category and women were very poorly represented in every facet of the arts - except fashion.

Your comments about the nature of women's writing and blogging were like fresh rain on a parched landscape.

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by Gabrielle Bryden
15 Dec 09 at 12:15

Great article. Now let's wait for all the competitive, abusive comments from men! (wasn't that one I saw on twitter). Blogging is a fantastic way to bypass the tired and faded establishment path that will soon be relegated to the past.

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by Penelope Aira
15 Dec 09 at 15:20

There's a lot to say in response to this post and the comments it's so far engendered, much of it already said by @Jeff. A first thing that might be said is that male posturing on behalf of women has a long and disreputable history. When I hear Clive James talk about how much he wishes to 'defend' Muslim women I reach for my revolver, or at least my chador. James might not be on that level, but he in, in a now-familiar fashion, conflates a whole host of issues, enabling him to ignore their most salient parts, and avoid any systematic analysis. Maybe he's being 'digressive' or 'feminine' on the advise of his household angels, but it seems to me that 'incoherent' and 'irrelevant' would be more pertinent adjectives.

Is @Kristy Murray surprised that the '100 most influential melbournians' would nearly 3/4 men? That seems generous to women. Unless you've bought the sex and the city gospel, it should be clear to every woman exactly where power resides, and even Bradley mixes this observation into his rather confusing porriage.

Furthermore, everyone, with the de rigeur caveat 'I'm generalising, but...' has said whatever they've felt about blogs, but it seems they read very few of them, or they would know that there is no point in generalising. My feeds would probably lean towards men, but its difficult for me to tell, and absolutely irrelevant to me. Some of the supposedly 'influential' blogs, eg. bookslut, seem to replicate the publishing industry in general - women faciliate, men write.

It cheapens interesting female writers to assume the best they can do is the cookie cutter realism of Drabble, Glass and Trollope. The depression reason for The Slap's wildly disproportionate praise was not Tsolakas' gender, but the fact that an aesthetically interesting writer had falllen for the broadsheet dogma that writers need to tewll us about 'real' life with 'real' stories in a 'realistic' manner. James does women no favours by pretending that retrograde art is the best we can do. Something not covered in the mainstream media, but covered extensively in both male and female authored blogs is the astonishing effloresence of aesthetically radical poetry written by women, particularly in the US (Juliana Spahr, Jennifer Moxley, Ange Mlinko, as well as older writers like Lyn Hejinian, Rosemary Waldrop, and Susan Howe. More than any other literary field, this is where women are justifiably dominant. When Helene Cixous spoke of an ecriture feminine, she didn't mean forth hand realism or a couple of blog posts. She meant Hejinian's My Life or Oxota, Howe's My Emily Dickinson, or Moxley's The Line.

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by Penelope Aira
15 Dec 09 at 15:24

Also, I assert my feminine right to make spelling mistakes. After all, what's regularised spelling but another male imposition?

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